Stop Trying to Be a Tough Guy (or Girl) and Do This Instead

Making difficult things easier.

Chris Wojcik
Mind Cafe
Published in
6 min readMar 28, 2023

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I meet a lot of people who are what I’ve come to think of as “industrious sadomasochists”.

They’re “mentally tough”, but they’re also kind of crazy. They’re kind of addicted to pain, and they wear this pain as a badge of honor.

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