I definitely agree with you, Darht, it doesn't work on every level. It's a mindset that's helped me personally grow a lot, especially in the last few years, but I don't think I have the authority to speak for everyone and everyone's life. I did my best to make the wrestling approach less about "winning" and instead replace victory with personal satisfaction and I feel that narrative is a bit more accessible, but I still can't speak for everyone's experience.